I not White, I'm Jewish.
I was once in a relationship with a person who would do things that they knew would piss me off. Then if I said something about it, that person would attack me for saying something about it, and would become highly critical and condescending.
I would have to rehearse various scenarios in my mind before engaging in any conversation with this person to try to avoid the situation becoming volatile. It was exhausting.
I feel like this is what the Dems. are doing when someone mentions election fraud.
They take the wrong thing that they did, and screw it all around, and accuse the other person of doing something wrong.
I think it's a mental disorder.
I thought Gaslighting was when one person tried to make another person think that they are going crazy. Like in the movie, Gaslight.