>>1289124 (last)
I put people in categories. My natural untrained impulse is to help people, but I've learned to protect myself first and think three times before offering help or especially information. And sometimes I interact with people on a basis of neither help nor harm, just business or other practical interaction. I am not obliged to offer more; it's a choice.
Truly, I am not my brother's keeper. This board is nice because I am not personally at risk, as long as I trust BO, Q, whoever may have access to logs, IP's, whatever. And I've decided to trust that much.