Why are you trying to teach the unteachable using words? Why are you trying, after 3+ years, to teach these particular unteachables? Have you actually gotten through to any of them? Genuine question.
The ones who are going to see are going to see regardless of what you do, yes? And the ones who aren't going to see aren't going to see regardless of what you do, as well, right?
Do you enjoy trying to catch all of the water in a waterfall? Would you try to battle the waves of the ocean? Foolishness is as natural and unstoppable as that, until you let go of it. If you're going to maintain this illusion you have created as a false exterior, at least realize it was created perfectly and there's nothing for you to fix, only things to break in ways that haven't occured to you egoically yet. Just my 2 cents.