A) Nice trips
B) had an old GF counsel me thusly when I was in your position (she was licensed and all that and we were well clear of the former relationship): anytime someone is making that accusation, someone is guilty of it. If it ain't you …
Turned out she was exactly right. My wife was banging a guy in our Sunday school class that she was meeting at Alanon but spreading the word that I was humping someone. I'm not even sure who … I didn't talk to the ex-gf until AFTER the allegations had worked their way back to me.
Run for the exit and remember this truism:
THERE AIN'T NO SUCH THING AS A FRIENDLY DIVORCE. IF YOU WERE GETTING ALONG THAT WELL, YOU'D STAY MARRIED.