>Who needs leaders that just go offline for a reason?
There are many leaders anon. A Drill Sergeant does not accompany his trainees to their regular duty stations, nor does he fight with them. He remains at his post and trains more recruits. A Brigade commander does not personally deliver an OPORD for a platoon sized operation.
You mistakenly assume that (you) are part of a we. And that is why (you) remain on your own, trapped in your own flawed perception.