Anonymous ID: 773440 April 17, 2021, 12:19 a.m. No.13445502   🗄️.is 🔗kun   >>5519

>>13445213

It isn't that complicated or dismal. You have to control yourself, self discipline. If you can control yourself always, nobody can ever control you and you can control any situation you choose, choose being an operant term. You develop discipline by setting ever greater goals and sticking to it until you accomplish them. As you accomplish your goals you gain the material artifacts of success and mature, quality women start noticing you. Stick to your your standards here, too. Never externalize your security! Do not "do it all for her". Eventually you get to choose the one you think will be the best mother for your children. Loyalty is a character trait. Keep developing yourselves or the relationship may stagnate and the 24/7 marketing BS could insert itself as offering solutions, when they are just frauds.

As a man the only way to win is to win first so you have something to offer, then watch your step.>>13445213

Anonymous ID: 773440 April 17, 2021, 12:27 a.m. No.13445532   🗄️.is 🔗kun   >>5540 >>5550

>>13445519

Hardly. Self control + 1/2 brain = pre-nup and you know all the actors thoroughly before you commit, the in-laws, the outlaws and any of her deviant and manipulative she doesn't get rid of because they are problems. Maturity is important. When in doubt, wait. It is the rest of your life.

Anonymous ID: 773440 April 17, 2021, 12:43 a.m. No.13445572   🗄️.is 🔗kun   >>5590

>>13445550

Tesla didn't have any children. He never married. He might have had one gf when he was in his teens. Very good chance he died a virgin. He did have close lady friends, afaik they were all honorably married. He may have been too obsessed with his work to notice. Otherwise he was very healthy and balanced, so had a solid handle on his mental health, right to the end.

 

If there is doubt you take measures. Always in control means one step ahead in all directions and ou choose your battles. Keep developing comm and other skills and you'll do well.