Anonymous ID: 3fb779 May 31, 2021, 1:37 a.m. No.13798108   🗄️.is đź”—kun   >>8117 >>8143 >>8172 >>8217

>>13798077

I think my brother-in-law is on meth.

What should I do?

Do I say something, or do I just shutup and observe?

I mean, I have no evidence that he's doing meth; but his whole vibe is different.

He stopped drinking alcohol a few months ago to save his marriage to my sister.

But, I met him yesterday morning at Menard's parking lot.

He just seemed a little off and usually he's got an annoying, overbearing personality in which he just won't leave you alone.

But this time, he seemed as if he just didn't want to talk to me, almost like he was hiding something.

And his skin complexion reminded me of the type of skin that drug addicts get (acne and red splotches of blood vessels towards the surface of the skin).

He just had a different vibe, and it felt like a "tweeker" vibe to me.

Should I mention something or just leave it be (as it isn't my business other than he is married to my sister and is the father to my niece)?

Anonymous ID: 3fb779 May 31, 2021, 1:47 a.m. No.13798147   🗄️.is đź”—kun   >>8163

>>13798117

I believe that he did stop drinking but to compensate for his addiction, he might have slipped back into doing meth.

If my sister knew, she would have said something about it by now.

I'm just kind of keeping it to myself at the moment, but I can't help my suspicion.

I've knew the guy when he was a crackhead and never fully approved of my sister getting involved with him.

Her relationships seem to always be based on feeling sorry for the dude.

The guy is a druggie—feel sorry for him.

The guy has no money—feel sorry for him.

The guy has no job—feel sorry for him.

The guy has no house—feel sorry for him.

 

Meanwhile, she is a fairly successful businesswoman and works hard at what she does and is her own boss.

She provides everything in that relationship and you can see it stresses her.

My position really sucks on this.

I want to help, but I have no evidence.

At the same time, I want to leave them to their own business and hope that whatever it is that I believe is happening will eventually simmer down.