We didn't lose anything.
How do you separate the wheat from the chaff?
Choose not to lie. It really is that simple.
It's funny, but any good parent will tell you: you have to teach your children not to lie.
We are all born knowing how to lie. You separate the wheat from the chaff by choosing not to lie.
And no one who's ever done it will tell you it's easy.
First, and hardest part: you have to identify when you've been lying to yourself. Log out of your own eye first, and all that shit Jesus said but no one practices.