you don't really ban anyone for flags, right?
I know that.
I'm sure you're OK with details of your narrative being false, too. and you call it a story.
It's best to remember that all puppeteers are also puppets, and the 'top' of the control heirarchy is not about nouns of identity.
thast is what humans use to understand each other. And the control culture uses it against us to give us narratives that lead us on to false narratives that cause problems later.