"Trust the Plan" requires some mental skills that are often not present here. What would have been the sense of Trump using the military to defend his victory?
A bloody staged civil war would have been the result. Not to mention the foreign policy consequences. We have seen how quickly it can destroy a great power. Soviet Union. The state system does not matter. The destruction from the inside AND from the outside play a role. Without the majority of the people behind you, no change takes place. It is a hard way we have to go, but it is necessary. There were and there will be victims who died unnecessarily. We will remember them.
When Q says the military is the way, he does not mean the cavalry that appears at the last moment. We must not forget that this is an information/disinformation war.
If anything, the military will take control for a short time until order is restored. We do not know the plan. That's a good thing. If we knew and understood it, so would the enemy. Trust the Plan.