I spent around an hour on the phone a few days ago with a friend who's brother died after receiving the third booster shot. On top of the pain she is feeling from the loss of her brother she is dealing with people telling her she is insane for believing it had anything to do with the vaccine. He still had the bandaid on his arm from the shot when he died.
It reminds me so much of the kids from the McMartin preschool. It's trauma on top of trauma. The idea that anyone can say the vaccine should not be considered as suspect in his passing is hurtful. She needs a comfort for her pain, arguing about vaccines provides no comfort. I know that there are stages to grieving, I have witnessed it personally and in others many times. When did it become acceptable to attack someone who is grieving a loss? This is not who we are, I don't believe we are this cruel.