>>14615483
I haven't been through this exact experience, but so similar. The gas lighting occurs also to parents of children who die post "well baby vaccine visit" and it is called "SIDS".
May I suggest your friend reach out to something like this group (Age of Autism):
https://www.ageofautism.com/2020/10/evee-clobes-died-36-hours-after-her-well-child-check-up.html
There are health freedom groups in many states and some are national. I don't believe any one of them would ridicule or heap shame on your friend. They might help her make a VAERS report which could help others.
Here are some outlets I can think of in addition to Age of Autism:
http://thehighwire.com (they have resources for making a VAERS report)
NVIC https://www.nvic.org
Citizens Council for Health Freedom https://www.cchfreedom.org
And last but not least: Children's Health Defense
http://childrenshealthdefense.org
I would be glad to pray for your friend.