can't help but wonder if there is a common begat in a famous book
Venting, check.
Cussing about it, check.
Now go be there for them, love them, and perhaps there may be decisions want need help with.
I'm grateful you posted this. It caused me to read this to share with you, only to realize how much I need to heed it myself.
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Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.
each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbor, for we are all members of one body. “In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold.
Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.
a troubled man once said, it bounce right off their thick skull.
see >>14928965 again. this time read it thinking of your future rather than your past
two movies on the same screen