nah. they just have to man up, as it were, and take responsibility for sucking that dick. all you are doing is creating an elaborate excuse to remove from yourself the responsibility of choice.
yes it is. your are not programmed by trauma. you still have choice
doesn't matter. you still have responsibility for what you do. no matter what someone else has done.
we all have trauma bro. some of us still take responsibility for our own actions
sorry for your trauma. the point is, are you getting better from it, or dwelling in it?
trauma does not affect everyone the same. some will become abusers. others will become kind
it doesn't really work like that. you don't get a robot.
start small. you are already making choices. if some are bad, oh well, don't do that. keep going, and look for good examples.
maybe not. i'm still looking into it though. if you have something to add, please share
it means fuck all. i don't just believe things because someone wrote it on the internet
it's a choice to believe something is "degenerate." what if it's not? judge for yourself. another choice. choice is hard. we'd like not to make mistakes. but what is a mistake? what do you choose to believe? it's hard not to have answers. but here we are.
good point. our choices are not unconstrained. you may not choose to whom you are attracted. but you can choose to view it as wrong, or it's fine. I didn't choose lots of things. it doesn't mean I lack all choice.
not calling it anything. look around. you have choices. you might not like them, i'll grant you that. but you can choose many things, starting with what you eat, what you read, what you believe, what you say, what you don't say …
I've heard assertions, I've heard stories but i have no seen anything I consider credible evidence that mind control really works. yes they can fuck people up pretty bad but program them? not so much