Once you've shown normies the charade, just live by example and let them find their way. This includes family. You can lead a horse to water, but can't make them drink. Stand firm and set boundaries, but don't force the issue or act as if you are upset. Don't entertain attempts to drag you into arguing and defending your position. If they come at you with I'm doing this or that, just reply oh, that's nice, good luck, or something similar. like, ok it's your decision. Don't show any resistance or provide them an avenue to circle jerk argue with you. It truly is their choice.