Creator bless you dear one, know that our forces (true Light forces that your family speaks of with fear - in truth only their own fear for we only know Love) are forgiving because all evil is but an experience to be overcome, a lesson to learn. Realize in your Heart who you really are and walk the distance to the Truth. Only Love is the way forward.
Doesn't sound like him. That individual has still arrogance in him, and hits a brick wall with dogmas for his level. If you are not maintaining a dark power structure, it's not the bloodlines that matter, only the development of the soul. Props to him for being a good cross reference source. People like Bickle can still learn from him though.