They fail as women. They've convinced themselves they are unable to truly feminine. (Is it out of fear? most likely…)
So then they try to men. But yet, almost invariably: they hate men.
So, psychologically, they are subconsciously trying to be what they hate (and fear)…
What kind of hellish inner life would that actually be?
They deserve, as all of us imperfect, sinful creatures do: SYMPATHY. Some small measure of it.
Damn difficult to find it, though. Especially when they seize positions of power and then lord it over the rest of us, as if THEY are somehow "healthy"…
Gotta try. Gotta try.