>I truly would love to know how anons are making peace with the reality of things
Define reality!
The only substantial reality is the All - God. Everything else is relativ!
Life on earth is a journey to learn! it will not end with death, it will expand!
What I am trying to explain is not to explain! You have to figure it out on your own!
Try to learn the meaning of cause and effect and you can "alter" your reality!