Tell you what, anon. Have been saying this for many years. Some people who used to scoff or just change the subject, are no longer scoffing or avoiding.
Being intimate with a triple vaxxed shedder is inadvisable, married or not. In fact, why is she living with him at all. That is the hard truth.
There is a scene in Rob Roy where the one villain has been stabbed by RR's wife, and says, "I'm hurt!" RR's friend says, "Not bad enough for me!" and drowns his ass. That's how anon feels about "seems to have broken them." Anon will be satisfied when the "seems" part is over with, and they are all jumping off the cliff while singing Kumbaya.