Sigh, guess I have to dumb it down…
Thinking it through is what got me there instead of just blindly accepting it without question which you seem to have done.
I know what it's supposed to represent…a situation where two or more people acknowledge that they have different opinions or convictions about something, and being ok with that.
I am not denying the event, I am saying I don't like the phrase used because it self-contradicts.
Like an art or movie critic uttering contradictory descriptions like "It's complex yet simple".
It's a lazy way of describing an event.
You misunderstood my post as suggesting the event described by those words somehow doesn't occur.