Off topic, but maybe Anons can help me with a problem.
My son in law is a pussy. Never wants to make a decision on anything from dinner to how to raise my grandson. It is starting to take a toll on my daughter. Without going nuclear, what can I do get get him to man up. Books, podcasts, etc??
Any thoughts are appreciated.
Thank you.
An ugly truth is still truth. I don't want him to be a pussy. My daughter calls me and tells me about the issues.
Love that answer, but I don't think that is going to happen.
I was the only good parent she had. She never rebelled against me.
She knows that is always an option. Without question.
She does need to talk to him. I would rather her talk to him and have some sort of answer. I don't think her just saying "man up" will work.
I'm not trying to turn this into a slide or anything. Just thought some Anon would have a book or something she could get him.
You don't think a man should be able to make a decision like "What do you want for dinner?"
That is my thoughts, but I have to try something, for her.
She comes to me for advice because I am the issue?
That could work.
Thank you for your help.
He does not annoy me at all. I know I have bad traits. I have a ton of them, like most people. I just want to help my daughter, who is telling me these things, if I can.
I think this is the best answer so far. Thank you.