While I get some of what you are saying, encouraging psychedelic use to break "programming" is ass fucking backwards. Here is a much better idea: set the pipe down and build your mental armor and learn to shield yourself and your home. Research how and focus your intent. Many anons here have a variety of "gifts"and I am certain each knows exactly what I am talking about with regard to shielding. The "weakest" are the easiest to target and the "strongest" they likely don't even know about. And on a more practical note: if you and your GF are already being "shared" and you didn't already defend yourselves, you are probably past the point of no return. I will say a prayer for both of you, but unless you lay your own path before you, you cannot begin to walk upon it.