Religion masquerades as Truth, but Truth is discounted as mere religion. It's time to expand your thinking.
So you didn't love them for who they are but insisted they be what you wanted them to be?
>What if someone pretended to be Jewish but wasn't
Rev 3:9
Behold, I will make them of the synagogue of Satan, who say they are Jews and are not, but do lie — behold, I will make them to come and worship at thy feet, and to know that I have loved thee.
That's not how this reads anon.
>Same reason I wouldn't marry my (now) spouse until they converted
You insisted someone believe as you do.
"Mass"? Catholic?
I'm not turning it into something it's not.
>I absolutely wouldn't have married them if they didn't convert
That's exactly what it is. You insisted they believe the same thing you do in order to get married. You would not accept them as they were.