KMAO!
You are the only person responsible for your own life. You yourself.
If your life is shit, you are the one who made you stand in it.
Only you can get yourself out of that place.
Whining and breadshitting does nothiing for you.
I have been saying this for a couple of years now. Either a hard slap upside their heads or take a 2x4 to their head. It has to be shocking.