>you would at least be understanding about being questioned, and accommodate such requests by being as forthcoming as possible,
The post you are responding to is understanding, accommodating and as forthright as possible.
That you cannot see BO's post in that light is just amazing.
IOW, why do you accuse BO of not doing what he just did?
What does this say about you?
How will this attitude and the behaviour it engenders affect your success in daily life?