the only thing humans control is self awareness.
you can either know or not know.
most can not face themselves
for the reality does not match
the self image.
the ensuing cognitive dissonance
kills the weak ego
while empowering the strong.
only self interacts with "other"
than self.
a weak self has predominantly
negative interactions,
regardless of actual context
or experience.
only One Interaction matters,
however.