Ed Latimore@EdLatimore
I grew up in the public housing projects and learned some hard lessons so you didn't have to.
Here are 11 things I learned from growing up in the hood, surrounded daily by crackheads, gangbangers, poverty, and death.
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5:44 PM · Apr 18, 2022
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Good manners never make a situation worse
If you mess up, all you gotta do is say "my bad" and people will keep it moving a lot of times.
But if you don't even acknowledge that you offended or accidentally bumped into someone, that's often gonna be your ass
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Weakness brings trouble
If people think they can take advantage of you or hurt you, they will. Human nature is fucked up like that.
If you're gonna be kind, you need to be strong, because there are terrible people who will take your kindness for weakness.
They will test you
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Crackheads are incredible
But only because they're hooked on crack. Desperation can make a man do physically incredible things
I'm mostly exaggerating for comedic effect, but I have seen crackheads jump from a three-story building and live on rotten food.
And they are FAST!
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Someone always has it tougher
I was on welfare and living in the projects, but at least my mom wasn't a crackhead.
I knew a few kids who got taken my CYS because of shit like this.
My mom only went to jail once. But some parents were always in the system.
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No one cares
Everyone has their own shit to deal with.
When you grow up in an environment like this and go to school with people who are more messed up than you—and you're already messed up—you realize your shit doesn't matter.
No one really cares. Because they can't.
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Prioritization can nullify a lot of poverty
I never wanted for a meal, although we had to rely on school lunch and summer lunch programs. My shoes and clothes were often rough, but I was fed
On the flip side, I know kids who had new clothes & games but had to steal to eat.
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Dealing with trauma is a privilege
Life has always been hard.
But when you're busy surviving, you don't have time to worry about that. Even if it's holding you back.
A lot of what I witnessed was likely people just trying to survive the best way they knew how to.
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Poverty is the root of evil
I remember I watched a pizza delivery guy get the shit beat out of him on Christmas Eve all so they could get like 400 dollars and a free pizza.
Like Meek Mill said "When certain n!ggas get to starvin', know that gun gon' shine"
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You grow up fast
At age 5, I had a key to let myself in after school
At age 7, I was taking the public bus by myself
At age 11, I had my first job
You have to take care of yourself because the adults in your life let you down in the worst way: they don't know that they have.
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Most people ain't gonna make it
Be lucky you were born where you were and can read this.
Most won't ever see it.
Most won't even know they can do better.
If all you know is what you know from birth, then is it really your fault you end up repeating "generational curses"?
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No one is coming to save you
I watch my mom sell forties and weed to keep us from getting evicted
I also watched my mom get arrested. That's when I realized I was gonna have to take care of me
I had to save myself. Maybe I learned it too early, but most learn it too late
If you've got a decent family situation, be grateful. You won.
You're so far ahead of the game that you can actually backtrack and still be ahead of where people like me start.
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