I have worked in K-12, mostly admin and special needs. "Special needs" means nurses and doctors in the classroom.
A lot of love is showered on children, as it should be. I am not gifted that way, but I saw this by people who are, every day. Cudos. What I do is, eat data.
I dealt with lawyers daily. There is this 1% opinionated assholes who shouldn't be there. Feminists and lesbians are the worst. I don't want them near my children. Gay men are less aggressive bit creepier and most pedo assault charges filed are against gay Mexican "teachers". Minors. you have your cherry, they are after you. I saw them in the school system, and I saw a lot of smart people who would shoot on sight and think about burying the miscreants later. Just like me. Need Help? Call Lake Mead Barrel.
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This isn't new, but it is "news". You have to watch your own children. Your love is the love they need most. If they are looking for love outside the family, you are a fuck up.