They are lied to by the medical people
They get frustrated when it’s not as easy as
It is on tv and are told the baby won’t ‘latch’ or they’re not producing enough milk- sometimes it takes a day to fill in the milk. They are told it shouldn’t hurt- it fucking hurts for a bit… the nurses secretly give baby’s formula and then the baby doesn’t have to work for it and gets full fast so nursing becomes impossible - all true
Talk to your daughters and sons about the lies