The familiar environment (your residence and the immediate surroundings) is a trigger. When you’re there, you likely subconsciously associate the familiar things you see with events or situations, even hypothetical ones, which are stressful in some capacity. When you go somewhere unfamiliar, or at least somewhat less familiar, like a vacation spot or an out of town friend or family members home, the triggers aren’t there. It’s much like a drug addict who’s addiction is triggered, when in familiar territory where he/she has gotten and/or done drugs. Many recovering and former addicts will attest that they had to get away from the people and places where they did their dope in order to stay off the dope. It’s elementary psychology tbh.
Make sure you put a copy of that DD214 on file at your local Register of Deeds. Ya never know when you might need it and, as time passes, it’s one of those things that just seem to get lost or misplaced over the years. I bought a house last year and I had a copy of my DD214, but I didn’t have the copy that had more detailed discharge information at the bottom. I didn’t even remember that there were 2 versions of the document. Luckily, and quite surprisingly to my middle aged self, my much younger and wilder self had actually took the time a couple of decades ago to register the long (full) copy at my local Register of Deeds. I don’t remember even doing it, but I did, and I was glad of it. Saved me quite a bit of hassle as getting a copy from Ft. Knox (where they keep the 90’s ones at least) isn’t a simple task. If your discharge was anytime in the 2000’s or so, it’s just a simple pdf request and you can get one emailed to you, but further back requires making a document request and then waiting to hear back whether or not they actually found it and then waiting for it in the mail.
I heard a clip of him the other day talking about lockdowns and masks and shutting down businesses and I thought to myself: “that all started while you were still POTUS”. It’s a sad fact but either Trump was complicit or he was blindsided and couldn’t figure out what was really going on. Either one is not good.
Yeah, probably so…. But by then it’stoo late