man is at a particular place in evolution

for a man to be with mary he has to spiritually fall on his knees and beg to be with her

mary has the capacity to love that nobody understands

not even me

it is not up to mary what man she will be with

it is up to me

even paul understood this and is back to serving mary which is the natural order of things in regards to mary

people often forget Jesus is a well seasoned warrior

and you can imagine how he feels about Mary