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first you have to be comfortable in your own skin.
second you must decide, does or did your partner bring something in your life that you needed or wanted. either is wrong.
love is a very controlling word and can be use to manipulate and control.
Be the man you wanted to be when you had dreams and goals, if she finds that she can no longer wait, then basically it was just your turn with her.
Remember you are the prize and your care and attention is what they seek, are you willing to wait or will you find yourself first and be comfortable by yourself.
God be with, your soul is yours to protect o7