>>1674370 (old bread)
Figure out conversation topics that have nothing to do with politics, sex, religion, or money and that might interest other friends/relatives. People are sick and tired of the MSM's concentration on these topics and want to talk to others on topics of just about anything else. I sense you need to connect with other people (that's why you're on these boards) but you gotta deal with people in person. Doing so gives you a sense of what's important to other people and that will help you when you dig for this board.
Find opportunities to deal with other people - jobs, school, church, clubs, volunteering, entertainment, sports teams, etc. It will nurture your own personality every time you interact with others.
You won't find solace in alcohol or mind-altering drugs. You will find peace and comfort in God, the Bible, classical literature, a child's face, a blooming flower, a rippling creek, a blue sky, a swooping bird, a waving tree leaf, etc.