>I take it your girlfriend hasn't come back yet..
NO, IT BE A FEW MONTHS AWAY STILL, MY BIRTHDAY I EXPECT AT LAST!!! HOWEVER MEANWHILE THE REASON I AM SO FUCKING PISSED OFF IS THAT I HAVE NOW DRAWN THE COMPLETE PICTURE OF HOW I GOT INTO THIS DAMN SITUATION WHICH HAS BEEN GOING ON FOR FIVE YEARS AND WHICH HAS BEEN PROMOTED EVEN BY MY OWN FAMILY MEMBERS AND THIS IS THE 3RD 'HOME' IN THE PAST FIVE YEARS THAT I AM LIVING AND NOW THEY HAVE A 4TH 'HOME' WHICH IS NOT REALLY READY AT ALL, IT'S JUST THE LOWEST TYPE OF LIVING ONE CAN IMAGINE AND THEY DELIBERATELY ARE GOING ON WITH THIS IDEA BECAUSE THAT'S HOW THEY HAD PLANNED THIS JUST FOR ME!!!