Like I said, for people who designate "sex" as some sort of holy religious sacrament, it will always be twisted and used for manipulative legalism.
Sex sits on the same rung of Maslow's heirarchy of needs as eating, sleeping, breathing, & shitting, It's fundamental to the human experience…but religion has harnessed it as a tool to control the culture and establish a false heirarchy, loyal to the evils of slavery, torture, and imprisonment.
We live in a culture that exists to shield humans from reality, and then complain, wail, and cry to "god" when the bubble gets popped.