> with a PhD in physics and even she was a goner in terms of innocence.
Education has no bearing on what it does to the mind of person. I was with a chick who was summa cum laud. her grandfather molested her mother…mother wouldn't leave the step father that was molesting her daughters.
knew another chick (didn't date) had an abortion…was equially as fucked up from that if not more cuz she could never move on to have a steady relationship / family etc.
Knew another chikc in E.Europ had 7 abotions ….kinda the same thing as above….i asked her about it and she claimed "social norms" more or less.
>but have been clean for a while now
like this guy >>17042678
So proud of you anon.
Be strong in the Lord. And if you path crosses with a chick that has gone through these things, "know" you can't undo it for her. If she's got a high emitional IQ, you can make it work…but don't let yourself get sucked into her hell. set that boundary for your self.
Boundaries are "Self Love" – and that is ok.