Man my mother was the TRUTH, I'm talking the ugliest form of it. I would play video games for weeks on end barely showering and if she didn't come up to me and tell me that I was a complete loser and looked ugly then I never would have changed. If she nurtured that I would have been a disgusting mess. She always motivated me to look nice for and talk to women properly; not too nice though, you gotta be 15-20% douchebag is the proper dosage. And if I looked to skinny and useless my father would call me weak and scoff at me. It took me a long time to understand how this form of harsh love really made me critical of myself and kept my healthy and in shape in my mid 30s now.
Well, I said bully or get bullied. Sometimes you just gotta respect rank and get bullied even if you don't like their character. A lot of people I respect I let them shit on me to learn the lesson. Obviously you have to be careful how you talk to people IRL. Through the Internet is the best place to be a bully clearly.