Love in this time instant, as you know it, has been tightly woven to the body and to sex. Desire does not automatically mean sex or sexuality - that's where the 'societies' failed in their quests.
Our bodies are not really us but vessels holding us in situ.
Any how, we all eventually learn from past mistakes, I do not wish to hurt, break up nor destroy anyone, just heal the wounds.
Not linguistic, 'sound sensitive'