Good work. Very jealous. My lady is (literal) pen pals with HRC. We just don't talk about this, she can't even begin to engage without shutting down. So I've taken it as my role to be there to support her when the shit hits the fan rather than trying to convince her of anything before. Trying to discuss this with her in the past has only fractured the relationship.
Dreaming is a start. A lot of communications going down in dreams these days. Good stuff.