Good luck, Anon. I went from having the busiest profile in my area and age group on two platforms to serial strikeouts to just saying f it and rolling solo thanks to this op. Things go off the rails at the So, what do you do? or soon afterwards. Maybe you can make it all make sense to them, I can't and quit trying.
This is too important to give up or slow down for me. I'll get back in the game when you're on top and all this is common knowledge. Or…I'll die alone, like I've been living the past few years.
Best wishes, let us know when you find one and make it past the six month mark and are still an item.