By God's grace I have had good instincts, likely due to a sensitive and analytical nature.
With virtually all communication means comped the difference between the godly and the evil is the Holy Spirit.
The story that's stuck with me for a very long time was how in the former Soviet Union Christians would meet but would not discuss the meeting place. Those who listened to God and were really His, showed up.
This is similar to the "as one man" moment that I think may restore America. No comms what so ever in the natural.
You cannot track love.