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Fear = control
The key, as always, is moderation. Subdue the urges, publicly, while recognizing their grip in your life, privately (despite your shortcomings, and even working through them).
"If I do this, publicly, and it causes my brother to sin, then I will not do this, publicly". Understanding the impact of your actions (outwardly) to the community at large is the first step towards understanding the human condition.
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Socially acceptable and privately indulging are very separate things. The social being idealistic, and the private being the closet of exploration. This is the stuff the Bill of Rights were built on, and very few are willing to discuss. The human condition is complicated, and diverse. Subjugating it to a preset list of "objective" (and yet, to be fully discovered) set of rules and restrictions is as authoritative as it is contradictory towards objective truth that perspective can only come about through exploration and reconciliation with that which is corrective in nature.