>she wants everyone in the family to get the whooping cough vaccine if they want to see the baby in the first 6 weeks before she's old enough to get it herself.
Just wait the 6 weeks, then you won't need the vaxx.
Protect yourself from the AMA, American Medication Association. Or else you may not be around to see the baby grow-up.
Think in the long term.
Use discernment.
Do what is right for yourself.
imho