Anonymous ID: 7b49b3 Feb. 20, 2023, 9:29 a.m. No.18382465   🗄️.is 🔗kun   >>2477 >>2675 >>2777 >>2833

On Presidents’ Day February 20, 2023

Social Diary• BY: David Patrick Columbia

 

Monday, February 20, 2023.

Gloria Vanderbilt was born 99 years ago today.

She departed gracefully four years ago this coming June. Not cold, yesterday in New York.

With temps hovering again around the high 40s and 50.

 

Almost pleasant, but not really, and more awful news about the train crash in Ohio and what is now being explained as dangerous to all of us.

And so it is.

 

It is still a holiday, Presidents’ Day across the land,

and specifically referring to the real birthdays of George Washington (on this date) and Abraham Lincoln (February 12th).

 

The city has felt quieter since Friday, as if many are away.

But in a place where the population is in the millions, how quiet could it be.

 

 

However, old George was a man of distinction according to what we know (and were taught) about him.

My friend John Loeb, who is a long time fan of our first President,

recently sent me a sweet little book called

George Washington’s Rules of Civility and Decent Behavior in Company and in Conversation.

 

The rules recorded in this slender volume were written down in 1746 when Washington was still a boy of fourteen

— although in those days, fourteen was right on the edge of maturity as people often didn’t live as long as we do today.

 

Washington, the introduction tells us,

“exhibited notable manners throughout his life. Diligence in social matters was common practice in decent society the world over, during his lifetime.”

 

At that young age George wrote down 110 rules of Civility and Decent Behavior.

He didn’t make them up but drew them from an English translation of a French book of maxims that were

“intended to polish manners, keep alive the best affections of the heart, impress the obligation of moral virtues,

teach how to treat others in social relations, and above all inculcate the practice of a perfect self-control.”

 

I was impressed because it’s blatantly evident today that those born in the past three decades have not been inculcated,

educated, or trained (by parents and elders) to pay attention with what we call manners, or etiquette.

And then there are those in my generation who were presumably brought up in a house where manners were taught, yet possess none.

 

The underlying word for all of them is RESPECT for others.

These are realistically cultural navigational tools, making it easier and more efficient for us to move around and/or navigate in life.

They are as efficient and practical as any map that shows you the best way to reach your destination.

 

Today, “manners” as simple as “please” and “thank you” are very often missing from our most general relationships to each other.

This is a very grave loss and augers very poorly for our future as individuals and as a people.

Many parents in these times don’t even bother to teach their children. It is a form of benign neglect.

 

The fourteen-year-old George Washington, obviously ambitious even as a teenager, knew this.

 

Number one on his list is:

“Every action done in company ought to be with some sign of respect to those that are present.”

 

George’s “rules” cover all “social” behavior

— that is life in the presence of others, be it conversation, business, dining or simply in the company of others

— strangers or friends. His 110th (and final) of these “rules” sums it up:

 

“Labour to keep alive in your breast that little celestial fire called conscience.”

 

And by all means, demonstrate Respect for others as well as for yourself.

 

Happy Presidents’ Day.

 

https://www.newyorksocialdiary.com/on-presidents-day/

Anonymous ID: 7b49b3 Feb. 20, 2023, 9:37 a.m. No.18382510   🗄️.is 🔗kun   >>2526

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Swamp Witch - Jim Stafford

 

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The above art/image creations by the following artists in the order their images appear in the video.

Their entire galleries can all be seen on the Deviant Art Web Site.

 

Down on the blue bayou by ~Angelinleather

morning fisherman by ~stevenwaynesmith

swamp witch by ~khisanth

Witch Hut by ~mangis

sWAMP wITCH by *DarkGeometryArt

Eyes of the bayou by ~MigraineSky

Witch's cottage by ~vespalock

The way to the wich by ~ortheza

The Witches by ~navate

Crossing the Marshes by ~Grumbleputty

Nettie's Room by ~Annika-86

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Swamp Tragedy by *augustok

Swamp fever by *AndreeWallin

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Bayou Runners by ~charco

Witch House by *APetruk

Tales of the Bayou by *Silver5

 

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