Probably many feel as you and are not trying to articulate it here. Doubtless you are not alone.
>assault the russians with inappropriate pronouns?
That is about all they will have left.
A good number of years ago anon read a "word" sent by a Christian ministry. Seems prescient to this day. All about America and drugs and (paraphrase) a plastic life and wanting to get back to quality. Meaning I believe, quality in relationships. Shedding the "fancy" (paraphrase again) for godly, humble, simplicity.