>>18452890
I was just about to ask "How many?".
I've met, and associated with at various points in my life, probably 30 or so; one being a relative. You don't just casually come to the subject of being molested as a kid with people, but out of all of them I know of 1 that said they were; but I get the impression it wouldn't have mattered with him. I've been hit on by a couple, and declined, of course, but always turned them down nicely. I guess just being exposed to it early on I didn't really see them as people that were "broken" or "fucked up in the head" or automatically assumed some traumatic event happened that flipped a switch in them. The relative? We knew. Us cousins all knew. Nobody ever said anything to him negatively (that I know of) and he's doing well for himself and comfortable with his self despite being brought up in a strictly religious environment. Very strict; cult-ish, even.