Extreme need for guidance
Been dating a girl for a while now and I'm constantly concerned about whether she's able to have kids, or me. I should be ok, but she has taken Accutane for 6 months. She claims to have not taken the vaccine. Exactly how big of a risk is this? I don't believe in divorce and there are some restrictions around my religion that keep certain treatments off the table. Please provide guidance.
Thank you and God Bless.
Not great. Not totally opposed to adoption but I want to have my own kids too. I feel like I'm being strong armed into not having my own kids.
Thank you for the advice. Something just feels off about it. I haven't asked explicitly if she can have kids, or if she was vaccinated, but I feel like she keeps setting the stage for me to accept that she can't have kids, and she knows that's my goal in life. If I wasn't going to have kids, I'd go back to drinking and probably die pretty fast. I have hard decisions to make. If I had a little more information, the decisions would still be hard, but they wouldn't be as stressful. I would at least feel confident in the difficulty of it.