When someone does something to you that pisses you off,
and you point out to them that they did something that pissed you off,
and instead of giving you an apology,
they give you an excuse,
and then they get mad at you for being mad at them,
what do you call that?
>nar·cis·sism
thanks
wasn't sure what it was called
not sure what to do about it
person made me feel bad for being mad at them and saying something about it, when they are the ones who were being inconsiderate to begin with
they turned it around on me
I feel like I'm walking on eggshells sometimes and have to word everything so carefully as to not hurt precious feelings, and to avoid being counter attacked
What does this even mean?
Jobs given to people bases on circumstances instead of qualifications?
LGBTQ+ is a Sex Cult and should be treated as such.
And books that imply that "White People are Bad" infringe on the rights of White people.
But they never look at the other side of an issue.
indictment has not been unsealed?
how many other unsealed indictments are there?
drip, drip, flood?
>Time heals all wounds
If you are willing to give the person a sincere apology, (not just an excuse) and that person will not accept it, then it is on them.
You did your part to fix the situation, now the ball is in their court.
Some people have a hard time accepting a sincere apology.
Let it go for now and wait and see what happens.
Some people feel that they must "punish" the person who wronged them, by giving them the "silent treatment"
Hopefully things will work out for you.
In the meantime, I recommend prayer.
Way too entrenched at this point.
Married to this person for 35 years already.
But jeesh, it's a challenge sometimes.
Mostly good, but every once in awhile things go sour.
Like walking around land mines sometimes.
Well, at this point I know that this person is probably not going to change, so I just have to deal with it I guess.
But I'm tired of things getting turned around on me, making me into the "bad guy" just for saying that something pissed me off.
Just venting here helps.
Good to have frens.
Thanks fren.
kek
Sometimes people drift apart.
When that happens and we find ourselves again, I can't help thinking that is a good thing.
Some people are squashers and they squash the life and enthusiasm and spark out of a person. Or they are just users.
Glad things worked out for you now and that you are happier.
>"put me in a box in the basement closet"
interdasting analogy
Sort of like being "put on a shelf" and ignored until needed?