Expand your thinking. There is plenty of blame to go around for everyone.
'Heartbroken' father sues NHS to stop autistic son's sex change
Parent says his 21-year-old has been let down by a system that has failed to take into account his vulnerabilities and mental health
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2023/06/04/nhs-gender-clinic-judicial-review-autistic-son-sex-change/
This happens in judemerica too.
"Mother admits she regrets letting her son, 4, transition to a girl identity and describes realizing her mistake was like ‘leaving a cult’ after she had previously spent years being a ‘true believer’ in transgender ideology"
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11722129/Mother-admits-regrets-letting-son-4-transition-girl-identity.html
Sorry. I wasn't sure if I was replying to a shill or a real person, but I took a chance anyway.