Am oldfag traditionalist.
But my daughter in law is smart, a tech geek, and I know she does a good job.
She's young and wants to have children too.
She and my son need to have the freedom to plan their family and pursue their careers how they want.
Have done the two-working-parents thing and it was HARD. Constantly short-changing both sides, and always exhausted. Neither my job nor my kid were getting the best me they could have had.
Single parents have an almost impossible task.
You can have a career and work for 40-50 years of adulthood
The Overton Window for raising children is much smaller
I pray every day that young people in this country will soon have the freedom to make decisions that are reasonable and right for them.